Happy Valentine's Day

I heard a talk show host asking today WHY a man should get his wife/girlfriend a Valentine's Day card... he felt it was totally unnecessary and wanted to know WHY a woman would even want a Valentine's Day card.

Maybe it's because I am a woman but to me the answer is painfully obvious: it is an open declaration of love. And sadly, it's sometimes the only occasion on which some women will ever receive such a display of affection from their mate. Too often I hear men reflect the sentiment, " I don't HAVE to voice my love for you. I am still HERE, aren't I?" To a woman, that is absolute trite, and almost an insult. Women respond to courtship; and the courtship should not end on the wedding day. Too many people don't realize that a successful marriage is a work of art requiring continual finessing, not something you abandon on the day it was born.

And PS: Yes, I DO get my HUSBAND a Valentine's card and gift- he deserves to hear my public display of affection as much as I do his.

Okay, I'll climb down off the soap box now. Bring on the chocolates!!

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