Saddest News - Melonie Schollmeyer


I don't even know how to write this. We are all so very sad. Melonie Schollmeyer, a vibrant woman, our relative and friend, became suddenly ill over the weekend and passed away.

Details at this point are sketchy. **(The following is updated info as of noon Monday)**
Melonie's children, Brittany and Robert, just had their Confirmation on Saturday evening. Melonie was not feeling well enough to attend, and stayed at home with flu-like symptoms. Afterward the children, Mary, and Cheryl all visited with Mel before going taking the children to spend the night with Tom. The next day Cheryl and Mary could not raise Melonie by telephone and so asked Tom to go see how she was doing. He did so (thankfully the children stayed in the car) and found Melonie had passed away in the bedroom.
The Medical Examiner's Office is doing an autopsy to determine the cause of death. Mary Wroten, Mel's mom, and her sister Cheryl Wroten, are understandably still in somewhat of a shock today. I am on my way to Cheryl's now and then we will go to Mary's house. The funeral won't be able to be planned till after the M.E.'s Office releases Melonie (Wednesday afternoon), but as soon as I have any info for you I will post it here. If you want to send cards, the addresses are:

Cheryl Wroten
11116 W Mystic Sadie Dr
Surprise AZ 85374

and

Mary Wroten
902 Oraibi Dr
Phoenix AZ 85027

The children are in the care of their dad but they will receive any messages you send to Cheryl or Mary. I know Mary and Cheryl as well as the children will appreciate your prayers and thoughts through this most difficult time. They have us, their family, to lean on, and we are all here for them, whether we are in Illinois, Arizona, or elsewhere.
Melonie, we love you and we will always miss you.

Comments

Anonymous said…
Mel, you are so missed already. Please know, your children are taking things well, you would be proud. And, Tom, he is getting on fine with your Mom and Sister -everything will be okay. We love you, and your children are surrounded by an overwhelming outpour of love, too. God bless, and God speed.

Donna and Diane
TheWebWalker said…
I am numb. Our cousin Melonie passed away yesterday. She was only 49 years old, a vibrant mom of twins who was healthy as a horse... we thought. She got sick on Friday with flu like symptoms and passed away in bed sometime Saturday night or Sunday morning. This is so WRONG. She had so much more life to live! So much more to experience, so much more to give. Her daughter Brittany is only 11 years old, and now will be facing her teenage years without her mom. Her son Robert found such solace and calm in his mother's arms, and now he also is deprived of her love. I try to tell myself they are young, they are resiliant, but... it is just WRONG. It is so WRONG. How can this be happening?? What is the Higher Purpose?? I know we are given thorns to bear, to make us stronger, to increase our Faith... but this is just such a whopper I cannot wrap my brain around it, much less my heart. I know I must, but right now I ache for Melonie, for her children, her sister Cheryl, her mom Mary. I know of no greater pain than to have your child die before you. The only comfort is the outpouring of love that has been showered by both family and friends. People stopped by today nonstop to give love and comfort, we thank each and every one of you for that. God bless you all.
Susan
Anonymous said…
Dear Mary and Cheryl, Robert and Brittany and Tom,

Like Susan, we are still in shock. It just can't be -- there must be some terrible mistake. It is unbelievable that the incredibly thoughtful woman, who was so supportive during our Dad's final days and who opened her home to us after Dad's funeral -- is gone.I'm sitting here going over my meager stock of memories -- her lovely home, the family letters she sent out, the scrap books she showed us, pictures of the twins, wishing I had known her better. She will be so sorely missed, both by you who were her closest family, and those of us from farther away. May her memory be for a blessing.
Anonymous said…
I met Melonie years ago during Stampin' Up. My heart goes out to your family. Melonie was a wonderful caring woman. Passionate for art and a concern for people. She will be missed. Your family is in my family's thoughts and prayers.

Sherine Sawyer
Anonymous said…
I am one of Melonie's Stampin' Up! friends...and I am devastated. Sending love and peace to her entire family, especially to Robert & Brittany.

Dina Wakley
Anonymous said…
I am in Melonie's Stampin' Up! downline and was shocked to hear of this devastating news. I sit here with tears streaming down my face thinking about how wonderful and caring she was. How could this have happened at such a young age? I feel for her children who must now go on without their mother who loved them so. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

Regina Wright
Anonymous said…
I went to work today, and just crumbled when I looked at Mel's empty desk. For a bit, I just reflected on the comedy of our days together and the tragedies we efficiently stopped so often together. For those of you who don't know, Mel worked in my family law practice. Melonie, a mom, a friend and ex-wife to Tom, a daughter, a sister, a Girl Scouts leader and involved in Boy Scouts' too, a Stamping Up owner, a major school volunteer at two schools, a legal assistant, a pilot, a great cook, my daughter's emergency care person, and my confident and friend. She was everything. What a tragic loss to so many wonderful people. Mel, while your passing has left a huge void, I think you would be very proud at how everyone is holding up and putting your twins, your lovely children, first and foremost. Mel was adverturious and she never judged people -though she would always encourage me to go to mass and drink more water! Mel was a combination of Amelia Earhart and Betty Crocker, and throw in Rambo on a bad day! I love you Mel; thank you for the time that we did have.

Donna
Anonymous said…
Aunt Mary, Cheryl, Brittany & Robert:

Saying that we were totally stunned would be an understatement when we heard about Mel. We are just very grateful that we all got together this past summer.

Please know that we are thinking about you all and you all are in our thoughts and prayers.

Love,
Gary, Gina, Kylie & Eddy Koenig
Anonymous said…
Dear Mary, Cheryl, Brittany, Robert and Tom,

I met Melonie at first through Fly Lady. We had a local group here and we met for lunch after "talking" online for a while. Then I started attending the Stamp Workshop monthly for a few years.

Melonie was a good friend. She had patience, she loved her children so much, was such a good mom. We talked in person or online at least once a week and many times more than that. I am so happy I met Melonie although our friendship ended I will cherish the memories I have of her and her children.

I am devastated by this and miss Melonie very much.

I would love to keep in touch with the card class buddies-Lisa, Toni, Ellen and Jenny. Please call me at 480-585-3058 or email me at mkleminski@cox.net


God Bless all of you!
Anonymous said…
I feel so bad that the leader of our sister Girl Scout Troop is no longer here. Brittany goes to the same school and has the same teachers as I do. I can't imagine how hard it is for her to grow up with all of the middle school pressures without a mom. I hope that the entire grade talking about it doesn't make it worse for her.

Please know your sister Girl Scouts are here for you. My whole troop cried at our meeting last night, then we celebrated Mrs. Melonie's life with cake and sparkling cider.

From my poem "The Secret of Life" - "The secret of death is not the life you missed, but the life you love."

--Hayleigh Troop 009

I've never met anyone who shared her love for life as much as Melonie. She brought smiles and happiness to every life she touched.
Jen Anderson - Leader 009
Anonymous said…
I feel so bad that the leader of our sister Girl Scout Troop is no longer here. Brittany goes to the same school and has the same teachers as I do. I can't imagine how hard it is for her to grow up with all of the middle school pressures without a mom. I hope that the entire grade talking about it doesn't make it worse for her.

Please know your sister Girl Scouts are here for you. My whole troop cried at our meeting last night, then we celebrated Mrs. Melonie's life with cake and sparkling cider.

From my poem "The Secret of Life" - "The secret of death is not the life you missed, but the life you love."

--Hayleigh Troop 009

I've never met anyone who shared her love for life as much as Melonie. She brought smiles and happiness to every life she touched.
Jen Anderson - Leader 009
Anonymous said…
I know Melonie through Stampin' Up. I am shocked and devastated as everyone else is. My thoughts and prayers go out to Melonie's family.

Kim Elarth
Tsa said…
Your sad news has reached even those who do not know your family. Many prayers are with you all during this time. God can only answer all our questions. -A fellow SU Demonstrator. T. Ganiere
Anonymous said…
Hello Schollmeyers

I have a heavy heart for your loss. I truly enjoyed the time I got to spend with Melonie at Zuni elementary. I was Robert and Brittany orchestra teacher. During my time I was asked to supervise testing with Melonie. She was a pleasure, friendly and a joy to work with. Know my thoughts are with you...

Thomas Wray
aka guitartommy
AZGSMom said…
Rec'd an email that Brittany and Robert would like donations for the Humane Society to honor their mother. While that is very selfless of them (and I don't mind contributing a few dollars), I'd very much like to contribute to a fund for them for things like scout camps or college.

Is there such & can someone let me know how to contribute?

JenAndersonAZ@cox.net
Anonymous said…
It is starting to sink in today...Yesterday my mind did not believe it was true. I really don't know what to say, who does at a time like this. I went shopping today at Micheal's (I can hear Melonie saying "don't get it cheaper at Micheal's with a 40% off coupon, order it from Stampin' Up! it counts for your sales.") to try and feel a little better, I was tried of moping around the house when it hit me. I was looking at all the holiday stuff and just stood there thinking that she will not be with her children for Christmas. I picked up about 50 different Christmas ornaments. I wanted to find one that reminded me of Melonie. I never did, but I will try again...I just stood there trying not to cry. I think I will just take a card she sent me and hang it on the tree this year. Anyway I am just babbling on, but it is making me feel a little better to write about her.

I can not tell Melonie's Family and friends how sorry I am. I hope that God is paying attention right now, because we all need his strength and love to help us get through.

Take care and God bless everyone...
Rebecca Urias
Anonymous said…
Melonie will forever be an angel among us all but most of all to her two wonderful children. She was an awesome, strong, compassionate women who will be greatly missed. Melonie always had a smile and many encouraging understanding words for me. I appreciate the impact she had on my life.
Blessings to all of her family and friends.

Forever in my heart,
Shanda
Anonymous said…
It has been over a week since I received that horrible phone call from Cheryl and even after the beautiful services on Saturday it’s still hard to believe. I’ve been friends with this family for 20 years and I have too many great memories that I wouldn’t know were to begin to share. So I’m going to start with the most recent and that would be the overwhelming support that has been given to this family in the last week. Mel was a great person and she will be missed but from what I saw over the weekend she had some really great friends and at a time like this that is a comfort to the family. Yes Brittany & Robert lost their real mom but I don’t ever see them without love & support. Cheryl lost her sister but she’ll never be without one and Mary she is the sweetest and my heart goes out to her I can’t even imagine what it would be like to bury one of my children. So as the Deacon said on Saturday “Life goes on” we try hard to make that happen and at times we will struggle but our memories of this wonderful woman will guide us through, Mel would want it that way.
Anonymous said…
my name is Art, i was a client of Melonie's. She was there for me when i was trying to find my daughter. she helped me prepare the paperwork for the court, and helped me serve the mother of my daughter at a time when my daughters mother was going to slip out of Arizona. So honestly, she was the one whom at the time i needed her most, she took time out on a day she had off to help me.Now, i am able to see and talk to my daughter on the phone. thanks Mel, you would be proud!
Anonymous said…
I have just returned home after a long trip to find the devastating news. Please know that the loss of your beloved Melonie has left a deep hole in the lives of many. She was indeed someone who always had an open heart and a smile for a friend. I will miss her dearly.

Diana Laulainen-Schein
Fellow Girl Scout Leader and Friend
Anonymous said…
Melonie,

We are all saddened over your passing. You were always a bright smile & kind voice. You will be missed.

The Gainey Ranch HQ Staff
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